What are the underlying core issues that destroy love and sabotage your life?

Every area of life that doesn’t work and every self-sabotaging behavior pattern can be traced to the automatic subconscious avoidance of a very specific hurt from the past.

This hurt is the childhood hurt of feeling worthless, not good enough, not worth loving, a failure, or some other form of feeling not okay. It’s not the truth that we are this way. It’s just an old hurt. But it’s a hurt that we will do anything to avoid feeling.

Any circumstance that triggers this hurt is perceived subconsciously as a threat to our survival. To avoid this threat, we fight, resist, hang on and withdraw. We operate in a state of fear, upset and tunnel vision. This in turn destroys love and sabotages our lives.

It also brings us more of the very hurt that we are avoiding. If someone is running from the hurt of failure, that person will create a life of failure. If someone is running from the hurt of feeling not worth loving, that person will sabotage relationships and forever push away love.

Every area of life that isn’t working and every self-sabotaging behavior pattern can be traced directly to this hurt. Finding and healing this hurt is one of the most important things you can ever do. Fortunately, the process for finding and healing this hurt is relatively easy. To learn the steps, click here.